grace

“A terrible first date, but an excellent boyfriend”

^^ To my eternal surprise, the internet loved that one — shows what I know. I do know that I’m a terrible first date because I’m shy and just shockingly polite, but I also know I’m an excellent boyfriend because I’m a good listener and good at talking frankly about things.

A tangent: there’s a great phrase, in translation, in a book about tea: “the religion of the art of life”. This, add some of Auden’s “we must love one another or die”, and Butler’s “God is change”, is how I think I want to do it, in relationships and otherwise.

That got a bit sincere for a short version of a dating profile, but, you know — call me!

(thor at tide-pool dot ca, or via an intermediary)